Marriage is no walk in the park

Wow been married nearly 18 months it feels like an eternity ... No wait we've still got eternity :/ jk it's totally flown by at points but also dragged at points. Now real marriage starts all the pretence is gone he's annoying I'm annoying & now we just have to learn to live with each others annoying habits ha. Although I've got him pretty well trained in terms of gift giving ;) still need to cure him of a disease all men seem to suffer from leaving your socks on the floor. I find them on the bedroom floor in the bed under & in the couch who knew one person could have so many socks! I am being tested! Another challenge is he's learning to drive & I'm supervising bad idea. If you really wanna test a relationship & your crazy then this would be fine. He has his way of doing things & I have mine it always comes down to it I've been driving 4 years no accidents :P & do as I say not as I do. The question is who is more stubborn.  

Nobody sits you down & tells you. Before I got married I had this pretty little picture in my head getting treated like a princess living in a mansion with a huge garden & going to lots of parties. No housework & no bills. Then reality struck. Getting married young means being a student being poor eating supermarket basics beans having to work & have church calling to juggle too. I had never cleaned a toilet till I got married eww. To this day I still struggle.

Me & Ed are total opposites I like designer bags & shoes he likes camping & mountains! This equals interesting disagreements he is adamant our kids will be wild & wield axes at 8 (not exaggerating here) & I'm adamant they'll go to private school & do plenty of extra curricular activities such as violin lessons & ballet.

All I know is I'm going to let him know every step of the way I'm fat because I'm carrying his babies & it's my way or the high way when I'm pregnant. He reckons I'll be nicer when I'm pregnant, as if the cheeky beggar I'm not that bad.

There are times when we want to kill each other I say we I mean me. I've found a solution 

I've got it on order ;) no I love him to death really & I think he's the perfect man for me cause I don't think anyone else in the world could put up with my craziness. Being married is hard work & it's continuously falling in love over & over again with the same person. It's forgiving & sometimes being slow to anger which is ridiculously hard cause boys will be boys. Ok honestly being married is brilliant I wouldn't trade it for the world I love my husband & I love our roller coaster life.